its not you. its me.....figured out my problems were my own self doing. 14.1 build 20150112 is working amazingly well.
maybe this helps other android users with set top boxes:
i had tried everything in the book, trying to fix my crashing problem isolating builds and sections of my advancedsettings.xml to the conclusion that the one constant i had was cachemembuffersize set to 0. i would recommend not using this settings unless you have the the local space to cache the video contents in its entirety.
i have gone back to using the ram to store my cache and adjusted the ram to cache a larger chunk of data. pure sweetness!
these are my network settings. that i have used from the examples on wiki. it uses the 150mb of cache (450mb total) and is working off the charts well and i havent been able to duplicate my crash, which was easily duplicated prior.
<network>
<cachemembuffersize>157286400</cachemembuffersize>
<readbufferfactor>20</readbufferfactor>
</network>
here is the link to those examples. you may find at 150 your using all of your mem and you can adjust it to use less as there are examples for 20,50,100 and 150.
http://kodi.wiki/view/HOW-TO:Modify_the_cache
cheers & thank you team kodi for many timely responses to my ignorant posts. the support here is really quite worthy of a great deal of respect.