Eskro,
I went with the $678 build, after looking at reviews and benchmarks for all the components, I think that one will last me for a long time. Thanks again for the suggestion!
As for the hints I was looking for, and I know this is not the right forum, I have a decently large media collection, with naming conventions that do not match the xbmc expectation. Is there any less than fully manual way to start getting the names and directory structure for library mode?
Currently its something along the lines of
Movies
share//Movies/Box Sets/Movie Basename - Box Set/Movie 01
share//Movies/Box Sets/Movie Basename - Box Set/Movie 02
share//Movies/Movie1Name.xvid
share//Movies/Movie2Name.avi
share//Movies/Movie3Name.mp4
TV Shows
share//TV Shows/Show Name/Season 01/Show s01e01.avi
share//TV Shows/Show Name/Season 02/Show s02e01.avi
share//TV Shows/Show Name/Season 02/Show s02e02.avi
Music
AnotherShare//Music/Artist/Album/01 TrackName
AnotherShare//Music/Artist/Album/02 TrackName
AnotherShare//Music/Artist/Album/03 TrackName
So its relatively well organized for finding things manually (the way I had to do it), but xbmc scrapers don't like it much