[Yoshifriend]

<advancedsettings version="1.0">
<videodatabase>
<type>mysql</type>
<host>192.168.1.162</host>
<port>3306</port>
<user>kodi</user>
<pass>*****</pass>
</videodatabase>

vs.

bind-address = 192.168.1.10

Are you sure you know what you are doing? You have to place the server IP into the setting, not the client one, your kodi config is wrong.

No I've tried another pc to test thats why I wrote the pc running kodi is 192.168.1.162.
Disregard 192.168.4.10